Jel

Ultimatums – Do They Work?

Ultimatums in a relationship or following a break up generally do not work. Most people use ultimatums as a desperate last resort and never have any intention of sticking to them and usually the other partner knows this. However, at certain times during a break up, it just may work in your favour, depending on the circumstances of what is happening following the break up. If your ex lover is requesting friendship or some kind... (posted by Jel 1 year 202 days ago.)

The Best Revenge

You've been dumped by your partner and you are shattered beyond belief. Feelings of anger, hurt, betrayal and humiliation surge through your body as the realization sinks in that the relationship and love you thought you shared with your partner is no more. Would getting revenge on your now ex lover make you feel better. You bet it would! What kind of revenge would you carry out? There are many different, nasty, horrible tricks you... (posted by Jel 1 year 202 days ago.)

Is Your Relationship Falling Apart?

That space of time we call "Falling in Love". We wish this passionate phase in our lives could last forever. The heady feelings of lust and romance, that sweet feeling you get when your lover takes you by the hand. This passion does not last. It is unrealistic to expect it would. When you think about it, the act of falling in love is somewhat exhausting and for some it may be a relief when the rush of love settles... (posted by Jel 1 year 202 days ago.)

Friendship After a Breakup

What is it about couples who try to remain friends after a painful breakup? You would think that after the pain of breaking up a relationship would motivate you to stay as far away as possible from your ex lover. Granted, some relationships end amicably and these couples do maintain a civil method of communication more for their families and children's sake than anything else. Some relationships die a natural death, and both... (posted by Jel 1 year 202 days ago.)

After A Break-up - Take Care of You

Getting dumped really sucks. And it has happened to all of us at one time or another. Your self esteem is shattered beyond belief and the rejection you feel after a break-up can stir up many unwanted emotions and feelings. It is very easy to feel angry at yourself, your ex or anyone or anything that you feel caused the break-up. It is also normal to keep asking why this has happened. As was my experience; my partner... (posted by Jel 1 year 202 days ago.)

Don’t be a Victim

Self-pity and believing that you are a victim is a negative and useless waste of energy, kind of like guilt. However, there are many people out there who do nothing but sit around and feel sorry for themselves and constantly see themselves as a victim. Allowing yourself to be drawn into self-pity, negativity and seeing your self as a victim is draining and exhausting, not only for you, but for anyone who cares for you and wants to help... (posted by Jel 1 year 205 days ago.)